http://hunterbiblechurch.org/2010/08/10/lovely-complaining/ Fri, 18 May 2012 12:48:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 http://hunterbiblechurch.org/2010/08/10/lovely-complaining/#comment-4120 Phil Mon, 23 Aug 2010 03:54:04 +0000 http://hunterbiblechurch.org/?p=2672#comment-4120 Dave I think you have raised some great points here - particularly how you have looked at this from the point of God's forgiveness and your challenge to behave differently to the world and base your actions upon love. One suggestion i have to make however is that perhaps when raising this "point of complaint" with the other person, that you first ask them for clarification/correction before you tell them that you forgive them. It is possible that after hearing their point of view that you might realise that you have nothing to forgive and also helps convey that you are willing to listen to them. Dave
I think you have raised some great points here - particularly how you have looked at this from the point of God’s forgiveness and your challenge to behave differently to the world and base your actions upon love.
One suggestion i have to make however is that perhaps when raising this “point of complaint” with the other person, that you first ask them for clarification/correction before you tell them that you forgive them. It is possible that after hearing their point of view that you might realise that you have nothing to forgive and also helps convey that you are willing to listen to them.

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