Church is Better than Gilmore Girls
by | Posted on June 26th in HBC:City, HBC:Lambton, Membership, Pastors thoughts, UniChurch 2 Comments »I’ve been watching Gilmore Girls again with my wife - the things husbands do for love. It struck me church is so much better than the myth of the show. Gilmore Girls is about relationships; family, romance, friends and neighbours. People caring for each other.
God plays no part in this life. In the show, church leaders are nice and tolerant and supportive and moral. Roman Catholics and Protestants and Jews share facilities with each other.
But, they never discuss God, or Jesus, or how he affects their lives. Their religious meetings are small, significantly smaller than the town meetings. God and church sit on the sidelines, with only a ceremonial role in the town community. Christianity is shown as ineffectual and irrelevant.
This is Hollywood myth. Even in the show, the relationships are continually fracturing. People never reconcile. Story twists enable them to ignore the fight and move on. There is no real forgiveness.
This matches my experience of small towns. I grew up in one. I loved it. But it wasn’t harmonious or tranquil. I saw self-righteous intolerance, nasty gossip, discrimination and indifference. People know each others business but they don’t love each other.
In contrast, God designed church as the place where we will experience grace and kindness. Church is full of sinners. We get to know and experience each other’s faults and sins.
But, and this is the crucial difference with Gilmore Girls, we’re sinners God has forgiven and is changing. Church is where we learn to love and forgive each other, just as our Lord Jesus loves us.
Over the next few months we will have opportunities to do this over a meal; to talk, and enjoy food, and get to know each other better.
This is a step forward in seeing how we can love each other more. So make sure you put these dates in your diary, and think about who you’d like to share a meal with.







Praying is a strange and exciting thing for Christians to do. It’s strange because really, we have no right to do it. We are simply created beings, we’re intrinsically worth nothing. But even more than that, we’re sinful beings who have no place before God’s throne. We mustn’t forget we’re attempting to communicate with a being totally other than us!
It has only been 6 months since I started teaching scripture in high school and I have really grasped what an amazing opportunity it is!
